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Children go through different stages in their life that can alter how they perceive and interact with the world. As parents, it is vital to monitor the child’s b1ehavior as well as their daily activities. It enables us to decide what paths they are headed.

When it is habitual as a parent to only pay attention to punishments and confining oneself to standard management of matters, there is a chance that the child may turn problematic. So, it is essential to understand the cause and identify the core of the problem.

Here are some of the signs to watch out for, it is crucial to identify these and take corrective measures, to guide your child back to a positive path:

Dropping grades: If your child is getting lower than the normal grades, something is wrong somewhere. It could be a learning infirmity, laziness, need for more attention, or social or domestic issues, it could also be a sign of depression.

Getting to the core of the matter is crucial than just punishing your child or overburdening them with your expectations of better grades.

Mood swings: Everyone experiences the occasional change in moods at different phases of their life. Teenagers with fluctuating hormones, in particular, are more prone to ups and downs.

The key here is to regulate if highs and lows are too extreme, or if your child quickly shifts from euphoria to depression seemingly without a cause. Be empathetic and calm with your child. Try to get your child to speak up about what they are experiencing at the moment.

Hiding things: If you find that your child is hiding something from you, it is an indication which can lead to suspicious behaviour, even if it seems insignificant at that point. They are creating a habit of secrecy, and it either says they are fine with bad behaviour or they don’t trust you. Each of these is dangerous and indicates that parent-child communication is under threat.

Sudden change of friends: Making new friends is a good thing, but a red flag is when they stop spending time with one group and start hanging out with a new group of people.

It is essential to find out what attracted them to the new group, and what caused them to stop hanging out with their former friends.pubert

Relationships are intricate, and children need their parents to help in directing them towards healthy relationships, and hence being constantly aware of the child’s friend circle, and significant others in their zone.

Personality changes: Puberty will bring some personality changes, but keep an eye on it. When a generally upbeat kid becomes more doubtful, or an outgoing kid becomes quieter, something is driving the negative change.

Maybe they are doing things they know you wouldn’t approve of or there can be some other reason. Gently ask them questions about the changing world around them.

You can also share your experience when you were at their age, and make them feel that they are not alone. Empower them to be fully aware of their strength and weaknesses, gradually addressing their limitations as well.

Communicate as much as possible with your children and make a safe place for your children as they try to navigate life. Try and win their confidence and trust, understanding that you mean well for them.

Wean off from their dependence on social media, thereby inculcating healthy hobbies, over and better management of the challenges of the real world.

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